Parental burnout test (BPBs)

The Brief Parental Burnout scale is a 5-item self-check for exhaustion specific to the parenting role: emotional depletion, feeling distant from your child, and losing the sense of fulfilment that parenting used to bring. It focuses on burnout as a parent, not on general mood.

This is a self-check you can complete online in about two minutes, with an instant score and a plain-language interpretation. It is a first orientation, not a diagnosis — a fuller conversation about parental burnout is best had with a professional.

Written from a neurodivergence-affirming stance: parental burnout is distinct from depression and does not reflect how much you love your child. For neurodivergent parents, or parents of neurodivergent children, the load can be higher and less visible — a high score signals that your resources are stretched and you deserve support.

  • 5 items, about 2 minutes, instant score and interpretation
  • Based on the BPBs (Aunola, Sorkkila & Tolvanen, 2020)
  • Anonymous — nothing to sign up for
  • Screening for orientation only, not a clinical diagnosis
Aunola, Sorkkila & Tolvanen, 2020; Roskam et al., 2018

BPBs

A brief 5-item scale assessing burnout specific to parenting, measuring emotional exhaustion, emotional distancing, and overall satisfaction in parenting.

"What does this mean?" if a question is not clear, tap this under the question for a plain explanation.
"Not sure about my answer" if your answer is only an approximation, mark it. It does not change the score — it just shows me where we can come back together.
5 items -- ~2 min
Local-first - your data stays on device
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Keys 1-7 for quick answer
For each statement, indicate how often you have felt this way in recent weeks.
1.I feel so exhausted by my role as a parent that even sleeping doesn't seem to be enough.
NeverEvery day
2.I feel completely overwhelmed by my parental responsibilities.
NeverEvery day
3.I feel I can't take being a parent anymore.
NeverEvery day
4.I don't enjoy being with my child(ren) the way I used to.
NeverEvery day
5.I feel like I'm not the parent I used to be.
NeverEvery day
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