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Video Library

Explanations and exercises, at your own pace.

It does not matter where you start. You pick the theme that matters to you now, watch as much as you have room for, and stop when you want. Some explain what is happening, others walk you through a short exercise. All of it is free, no account and no rush.

150 videos to watch · 132 exercises to practice

For family and friends

Partner, parent or friend of someone autistic, with ADHD or with OCD? Short videos on what actually happens and what helps, most of them made by autistic or ADHD people themselves.18 videos · 198 minutes · open access, no account
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Neurodivergence

10
  • Autistic traits explained from the inside: processing, communication, regulation.

Health & wellbeing

11
Curated playlists
From the library· Autism & Autistic Experience
30 videos

Romanian subtitles are machine-translated and may contain mistakes, except where a video is marked “Romanian subtitles”.

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Can you make it to the end? (Sensory sensitivity simulation)1:29
Autism & Autistic Experience

Can you make it to the end? (Sensory sensitivity simulation)

A short simulation showing how sensory input piles up toward overload. Useful for the people around you too.

no subtitles
National Autistic SocietyPlay here →
The Importance of Stimming in Late Diagnosed Autistic Adults17:32
Autism & Autistic Experience

The Importance of Stimming in Late Diagnosed Autistic Adults

Why stimming (self-regulation through repetitive movement) is healthy and needed, not something to correct.

Mom on the SpectrumPlay here →
Do You Know The Signs Of An Autistic Meltdown?4:13
Autism & Autistic Experience

Do You Know The Signs Of An Autistic Meltdown?

How to recognise the early signs of a meltdown and why it is not a tantrum but the nervous system responding to too much, too fast.

BBC ScotlandPlay here →
Autistic Meltdowns: What to do?6:44
Autism & Autistic Experience

Autistic Meltdowns: What to do?

Concrete steps for you or someone close during and after a meltdown, focused on safety and recovery.

Autism ExplainedPlay here →
Autism and the Double Empathy Problem — Dr. Damian Milton (Univ. Kent)30:28
Autism & Autistic Experience

Autism and the Double Empathy Problem — Dr. Damian Milton (Univ. Kent)

The original academic presentation of the double empathy theory: why social difficulties are not an autistic deficit but a mutual communication mismatch.

University of KentPlay here →
Monotropism and Flow States — Damian Milton (Studio 3)8:55
Autism & Autistic Experience

Monotropism and Flow States — Damian Milton (Studio 3)

Damian Milton explains how monotropism — single-channel, intense autistic attention — underlies transition difficulties and the experience of flow states.

Studio 3Play here →
Special Interests and Hyperfixations43:02
Autism & Autistic Experience

Special Interests and Hyperfixations

An affirming look at focused interests as a source of joy, expertise and regulation.

Toon RuinsPlay here →
Autism in Adults — 55 Hidden Signs44:35
Autism & Autistic Experience

Autism in Adults — 55 Hidden Signs

An extended list of autistic traits that often go unnoticed in adults, useful for those who recognise themselves without having received a diagnosis yet.

Orion KellyPlay here →
Autistic Meltdowns, Shutdowns and Burnout: What Is the Difference?13:49
Autism & Autistic Experience

Autistic Meltdowns, Shutdowns and Burnout: What Is the Difference?

Explains in plain terms the three states that are often confused, with concrete signs for each and what helps in each case.

Mom on the SpectrumPlay here →
Autistic Inertia — Why Simple Tasks Feel Impossible9:59
Autism & Autistic Experience

Autistic Inertia — Why Simple Tasks Feel Impossible

The difficulty starting and stopping an activity is not laziness and not a lack of will. It is a trait with a name, and the name changes a lot about how you judge yourself.

Michelle UnmaskedPlay here →
Stimming in Three Minutes2:25
Autism & Autistic Experience

Stimming in Three Minutes

What stimming is, why it helps and why there is nothing about it to correct. Two and a half minutes, also good to show someone close to you.

Sara GibbsPlay here →
Why We Need Rest After Socialising7:11
Autism & Autistic Experience

Why We Need Rest After Socialising

After a few hours of masking, the tiredness is not laziness and not dislike of people. The explanation helps most for those around you, who take it personally.

The Articulate AutisticPlay here →

Practice

Each one shows a single thing to do, step by step. Most take under ten minutes, a few under two.

Romanian subtitles are machine-translated and may contain mistakes.

Where do I start
One exercise, under ten minutes.
Box Breathing — walkthrough 1
Start here· Breathing

Box Breathing — walkthrough 1

Box Breathing

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Body & nervous system

7
  • Three guided techniques: box breathing, 4-7-8, diaphragmatic. Each under five minutes.

Emotions & identity

7
Related toolsGrounding exercises
5 exercises
Box Breathing — walkthrough 1
2:47
Breathing

Box Breathing — walkthrough 1

Exercise: Box Breathing

You breathe in four equal counts — inhale, hold, exhale, hold — usually four seconds each. The steady rhythm slows the heart and tells the nervous system it is safe, and you can do it anywhere without drawing attention.

You needAsks for nothing. Works on the bus, without showing.

BreathingPlay here →
Box Breathing — walkthrough 2
1:06
Breathing

Box Breathing — walkthrough 2

Exercise: Box Breathing

The same four-equal-count breathing in a short, quick version. Handy when you just want to refresh the rhythm or need a few-minute reset between activities.

You needAsks for nothing. Works on the bus, without showing.

BreathingPlay here →
4-7-8 Breathing — walkthrough 1 (with a visual pacer)
4:03
Breathing

4-7-8 Breathing — walkthrough 1 (with a visual pacer)

Exercise: 4-7-8 Breathing

You inhale for four, hold for seven and exhale slowly for eight. The long out-breath works the body's natural brake, which is why it helps before sleep or when a wave of panic hits. Here a circle expands and contracts to keep the count for you — you do not have to track it in your head, which changes the exercise a great deal.

You needAsks for nothing. Works on the bus, without showing.

BreathingPlay here →
4-7-8 Breathing — walkthrough 2
5:52
Breathing

4-7-8 Breathing — walkthrough 2

Exercise: 4-7-8 Breathing

A second walkthrough of the same 4-7-8 pattern, with different guidance, so you can find the pacing that suits you. The key stays the same: the exhale is longer than the inhale.

You needAsks for nothing. Works on the bus, without showing.

BreathingPlay here →
Diaphragmatic Breathing
3:53
Breathing

Diaphragmatic Breathing

Exercise: Diaphragmatic Breathing

You breathe from the belly, letting the diaphragm do the work instead of shallow chest breathing. The body reads slow, deep breathing as a sign of safety and eases out of alert mode.

You needAsks for nothing. Works on the bus, without showing.

BreathingPlay here →

Therapist-recommended

Resources I recommend

Apps, organisations and reading I have chosen as support between sessions. I do not make them, I receive nothing from them, and all have a complete free part. If something does not suit you, that is not your fault: different minds need different things.

How I choose

Free, or with a complete free part. No ads. No language that describes you as broken. If a resource has a cost or a limit, it says so on the card.

Calm and body

when you need to settle or filter out noise

MAppMeditoGuided meditations, sleep stories and breathing exercises. Non-profit, no ads, no account needed.Language: English onlyFreeNon-profitNo adsNo accountSuits you if you prefer short exercises and a calm voice, without pressure to do it right.Open → (opens in a new tab)NAppmyNoiseAdjustable sounds (rain, waves, tones) for building your own soundscape for focus, relaxing or sleep.Language: English onlyFreeNo adsExtra features, such as saving your settings, unlock with a donation.Suits you if background noise wears you out and you want to cover it with something you chose.Open → (opens in a new tab)

Emotions

when it is hard to put words to what you feel

HAppHow We FeelHelps you name what you feel and see patterns over time. Created at Yale University, non-profit, funded by donations.Language: English and SpanishFreeNon-profitNo adsSuits you if naming emotions is hard or you want to see what sets them off.Open → (opens in a new tab)

Day and tasks

when organising asks too much at once

GAppGoblin ToolsBreaks a task into small steps, estimates the time and sorts out your thoughts. Made for neurodivergent people by one person.Language: English interface; you can pick RomanianFreeNo adsIt uses AI and can be wrong. Do not type personal or therapy details into it. The core tools are free; some features are paid.Suits you if "clean the house" sounds like one enormous step.Open → (opens in a new tab)HbAppHabiticaHabits and tasks as a game, with a character, rewards and parties. Built by a small team and volunteers, open source.Language: Includes RomanianFreeOpen sourceIf you miss tasks your character loses health, which some people find pressuring. In Settings you can press "Pause Damage" and the penalty stops. The paid subscription is optional and only adds in-game extras.Suits you if a game and rewards motivate you more than a plain list.Open → (opens in a new tab)
POrganisationPDA SocietyA UK charity for PDA. Free guides for adults (relationships, work, money), a 20-minute introductory webinar and free support by email or phone.Language: English onlyFree guidesUK charitySome training materials are paid; the guides for adults are free.Suits you if demands, even the ones you set yourself, trigger a shutdown.Open → (opens in a new tab)CArticleMedical cannabis vs. stimulants for ADHD in the UKA balanced comparison: stimulants remain first-line treatment; cannabis is an unfunded fallback option with its own risks.Language: In EnglishArticlePublished by Cannabis Health (Prohibition Partners), a publication on the cannabis industry; it cites the NICE guidelines.Suits you if you wonder what the UK system says about the two.Open → (opens in a new tab)

The resources above are made by third parties and may change on their own sites. They do not replace therapy and are not medical advice.